The leadership metaphor about toast that changed how I coach


Illustrating Leadership Podcast Announcement

Hi Reader,

I just sat down with Jessica Wright for an episode of the Illustrating Leadership podcast, and I wanted to make sure you didn't miss it.

We talked about a topic that comes up in almost every conversation I have with leaders: developing your people.

A few things we dug into:

  • Why strong teams aren't built by making everyone the same — they're built by understanding different strengths and using them well
  • What it means to be a talent exporter, not a talent hoarder
  • Why clear communication is harder than it looks (and my "everyone is making toast in a different kitchen" metaphor)

If you lead people, this one's worth the listen.

Listen: Developing Your People

Listen to the Episode

And while you're there — I also shared a free resource with Jessica's listeners: the CALG Leadership Gap Scorecard. It takes about two minutes and shows you exactly where your leadership system is breaking down across clarity, alignment, accountability, and growth.

Take the Leadership Gap Scorecard Here

Talk soon,

Sharon Justice
Leadership Coach and Strategist
sharon@justiceleadership.com

108 Avon Lane, Greenville, NC 27858
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